2015
My Harvard Team |
I attended Harvard’s The Art of School Leadership course that
fuelled my passion for teaching, education and coaching. I
blogged throughout my travels that included ISTE in Philadelphia, visits to
schools and universities, and a podcast at University of Pennsylvania created with
Joe Mazza about professional learning. This experience sparked conversation, connections and convictions about coaching and provided the opportunity to listen and
converse with others. I heard how coaching had been hijacked by policy
makers and administrators and used for teacher accountability and performance management.
This US learning journey was a life-altering experience, both professionally
and personally and started me on my doctoral journey.
By applying for the Harvard course, the Wenona Fellowship and
planning my 5-week trip, I learnt to how to make a case for my own professional learning, and how to plan, budget and be flexible. What I
gained from the process and travelling solo was immeasurable. Every
day was an adventure. I made mistakes, took calculated risks and lived in the moment. Walking in the wrong direction for an hour, booking the
incorrect date for train trip and even getting lost, created the opportunity to
learn. My independence, confidence and self-efficacy soared.
1st ICSEI in Singapore |
2018
I attended ICSEI in Singapore and added a few days either
side to explore Singapore solo. While I loved my time with colleagues and new
friends at the ICSEI conference, I really enjoyed being independent and adventurous.
When I travel on my own, I feel a sense of excitement, peppered with little apprehension.
However, I see the benefit of pushing myself out of my comfort zone and when I
travel on my own, it’s just me. Being responsible for and relying on myself, in this place of independence, I flourish.
2020
Dubai camel riding |
I’m currently in Marrakech ready for the ICSEI conference to
start in a few days. I broke up the long-haul flight to Morocco with 4 days in Dubai. There, I walked the streets, took the metro, booked tours, met people and kept
myself company. With only hotel wifi (unsecured) and Dubai barriers with voice
messages, I felt cut-off from my regular routine and missed speaking with my husband and children. When I arrived in Casablanca, I found challenges and this experience
has highlighted how accustomed I am to my comforts. The comfort of predictability,
being connected and effortless communication.
What I struggled with traveling solo
- Language barriers
- Connectivity (voice, data, etc)
- Knowing the customs and trying to be respectful
- Identification and denominations of money
- Bartering for items, taxi fare, etc.
- Tipping - how much, who?
- Feeling uncomfortable- constantly being asked, ‘you’re traveling on your own, or where's your husband?'
- Being Uneasy - when walking in streets unknown (without GPS)
- Stressed about time - On some tours, after venturing into unknown territory, you’re expected to be back at meeting point at a particular time. And yes, the tour left people to find their own way home after not arriving at the meeting point on time.
- At times, I felt invisible and yet other times, I felt many eyes were on me.
Circumstances did create other challenges but I've learnt to say, "It is what it is". You can't control everything and should never try. I assume being in a less familiar context, compared to my previous travel destinations, heightened my sense of awareness…constantly.
It wasn’t until my friends, Trista and Maria joined me that I
realise how taxing it is to be constantly in that heightened state of awareness.
Being together, we were collectively responsible. This enabled me to be less
guarded, resulting in more energy. And this was just what I needed to really
enjoy the ICSEI Marrakech conference.
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